Showing posts with label failure. Show all posts
Showing posts with label failure. Show all posts

Thursday, May 10, 2018

Astronauts and Failure

https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=141&v=bVNTNeNMH8Q


Children often see astronauts as heroes and we adults see them as people born with the right stuff. 

But, even astronauts fail.

This clip is a compilation of astronauts trying to move around on the moon. It is one giant fall after another as they work to move in those huge suits and do it with some semblance of coordination in a gravity environment that is very different from earth.They are learning to walk all over again.

It is easy for children to see a failure as being an indication of whether or not they will ever be successful in a skill. As parents we need to watch for this attitude and gently remind our children that failure is not the end of accomplishment; it is the beginning of learning.

The astronauts in the clip learned from their missteps and gradually became more adept at walking on the moon. When we make a mistake, we can learn and move on to do better. This is especially true when it comes to our sin failures. We cannot make ourselves failure-free in order to get to heaven, but God wants us to live a healthy, happy, loving, obedient life. When we sin, we can repent and our loving God forgives us.  Then He helps us to get back up, brush off that moon dust, and learn from that failure.

Here is a beautiful song prayer for parents. Let it remind you of God’s grace and His willingness to bring good out of your parental missteps. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XzAU8J2aGIQ


Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Parenting: The Blessings of Unconditional Love



Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. (I Peter 4:8a, NIV)


We love our children in so many ways. We love their hugs, their funny ways, their accomplishments, and we love them right through their sorrows and sicknesses. From the first time we saw their infant faces, we couldn't help but love them.


But, all loves are not created equal. Children thrive on a particular kind of love called unconditional love. Unconditional love is not about the child, the unique characteristics, or the behaviors.

Unconditional love is about grace. It is love that stands regardless of the child, regardless of the behavior. It is love that is always present, surrounding your child, protecting your child, providing a safety net, and assuring your child that there is belonging.


Unconditional love means you love your children, no matter what:


If they mess up or achieve great things, you love them.


If they are sick or strong, you love them.


If they follow in your footsteps or take their own path, you love them.


If sad, bad, frustrating things happen, you love them.


If you are away from them, you love them.


There is nothing that can make you love them less; nothing that can make you love them more. It is grace because it is not earned; it is given.


This is not a kind of love that excuses bad behavior. Behaviors must be corrected, but love never changes. This is not a kind of love that ignores good growth. Behaviors must be encouraged, but love never changes.
 

This is the kind of love that allows children to learn and grow by taking risks. They know that risks might result in mistakes. But, unconditional love reminds them that failure teaches.


This is a kind of love that allows children to develop empathy, and to love others.


This is the kind of love that God shows us what He shows us grace.